My Perfect Family: Hunter
Hunter McGregor is a passionate gamer, a design school graduate, and he runs a B&B with his mum, Roi. But more than anything, 27-year-old Hunter wants a job; not so easy when you live with autism.
My Perfect Family: Ebony Sinclair
Ebony Sinclair is a go-getter born with Achondroplasia, a form of dwarfism. Ebony and her husband Ge...
My Perfect Family: Ebony Sinclair
My Perfect Family:Fragile X
To discover you’re the carrier of the genetic condition Fragile X only after your children are born ...
My Perfect Family:Fragile X
My Perfect Family: Nash Jones
The Jones family’s life changed forever when their youngest boy Nash was diagnosed with a rare condi...
My Perfect Family: Nash Jones
My Perfect Family
Exploring the day today lives of tight-knit families, who are managing complex or unusual conditions...
My Perfect Family
My Perfect Family: Lydia Golding
6-year-old Lydia Golding was born with her right femur bone significantly shorter than her left. In...
My Perfect Family: Lydia Golding
My Perfect Family: Hatty
Hatty Walton is a 13-year-old star on the show Mystic, who lives with a hearing impairment. Hatty ho...
My Perfect Family: Hatty
My Perfect Family: Twins
For young mum Nikki Stokes being a mother of five means there's never a dull moment. With non-verbal...
My Perfect Family: Twins
My Perfect Family: Georgia Heard
Georgia Heard thought she had parenting all mapped out. But when the younger of her two boys was di...
My Perfect Family: Georgia Heard
My Perfect Family: Max and Grace
Siblings Max and Grace are off on a road trip to Queenstown, putting Max's independence to the test ...
My Perfect Family: Max and Grace
My Perfect Family: The Priestleys
Four of the six Priestley family members live with Autism. Because they’re able to function at a hig...
My Perfect Family: The Priestleys
My Perfect Family: Southland
Southland Disability Enterprises employs over 80 people who live with a disability. For Mary-Ellen J...
My Perfect Family: Southland
My Perfect Family: Meet the Asners
They call themselves the "The Brady Bunch of Autism". Descendants of Hollywood royalty, Matt and Nav...
My Perfect Family: Meet the Asners
My Perfect Family: Grace Payne
Grace Payne is a powerlifter who has competed in the Special Olympics as an autistic athlete. Now, 2...
My Perfect Family: Grace Payne
My Perfect Family: Creative Clan
Ranger Ashurst is eleven and needs regular injections to control his Chrone's disease, his eight yea...
My Perfect Family: Creative Clan
My Perfect Family: Friedreich's Ataxia
Preparing for a 30th birthday is a big deal in the Boon family. Three out of five siblings live with...
My Perfect Family: Friedreich's Ataxia
My Perfect Family: No Respite
Life during a pandemic is a challenge for all parents with kids at home. But for parents whose child...
My Perfect Family: No Respite
My Perfect Family: Malaena Cariño
12-year-old Malaena Cariño has a rare genetic form of epilepsy. Her whānau have exhausted most treat...
My Perfect Family: Malaena Cariño
My Perfect Family: Scruff's Bunch
Kim Preston (Scruff) reckon's she'll be caring for her three adult sons with Autism until she 'carks...
My Perfect Family: Scruff's Bunch
My Perfect Family: Welcome Home Stevie
Murray and Janine's son Steven was a gentle boy with autism. 18 months ago he left their house with ...
My Perfect Family: Welcome Home Stevie
My Perfect Family: Tiffiney Perry
Always an active person, Tiffiney Perry continued participating in sports and achieving success afte...
My Perfect Family: Tiffiney Perry
My Perfect Family: Tri Rugby
For members of Christchurch's Tri Rugby team - who live with intellectual disabilities - rugby is mo...
My Perfect Family: Tri Rugby
My Perfect Family: Bold As Brass
As New Zealanders living in Australia, Abbi and Morgan Brass received no government support when the...
My Perfect Family: Bold As Brass
My Perfect Family: Candle Dad
Raising four children alone is a challenge - more so, when two have Down Syndrome. Tony Sykes rose t...
My Perfect Family: Candle Dad
My Perfect Family: Melody
Within just one year Melody entirely lost her vision, gave birth to her first child, and left her ho...
My Perfect Family: Melody
My Perfect Family: Family Man Graeme
When Graeme Porter was diagnosed with an intellectual disability as a child no one expected him to r...
My Perfect Family: Family Man Graeme
Brothers and Sisters
The unique perspective of those closest to us, our brothers and sisters.
Brothers and Sisters
My Perfect Family: Courtenay
Demar Gear was just five months old when she contracted meningitis, leaving her unable to walk or ta...
My Perfect Family: Courtenay
My Perfect Family: Zoe
Zoe Tate lives with Wolf-Hirschhorn Syndrome, a genetic disorder affecting her appearance, growth an...
My Perfect Family: Zoe
My Perfect Family: Little People
The 50th annual conference for Little People of New Zealand (LPNZ) is fast approaching, and 27-year-...
My Perfect Family: Little People
My Perfect Family: Kim Preston
Raising three boys is always a big task, especially when two of them have severe autism. But Kim Pre...
My Perfect Family: Kim Preston
My Perfect Family: Hunter
Hunter McGregor is a passionate gamer, a design school graduate, and he runs a B&B with his mum, Roi...
My Perfect Family: Hunter
My Perfect Family: Cystic Sisters
Kristy and Nikki are sisters and young mums who bring smiles to the faces of strangers by doing surp...
My Perfect Family: Cystic Sisters
My Perfect Family: CDKL5
Learning your new baby has a complex rare condition is life altering. Three Mums connect over their ...
My Perfect Family: CDKL5
My Perfect Family: Mahia & Tipene
Mahia and Tipene Stephens were born with a congenital eye disorder, causing their eyesight to deteri...
My Perfect Family: Mahia & Tipene
My Perfect Family: Alex
Performance is in the Walsh family’s DNA. When their youngest son Alex was born with Down syndrome, ...
My Perfect Family: Alex
My Perfect Family: Tara Aumalesulu
Nine year old Tara is launching her very first album, Pele O Lo’u Fatu. Living with visual impairmen...
My Perfect Family: Tara Aumalesulu
My Perfect Family: Martine
Blind since birth, Martine Able-Williamson is now a global leader in the blind community. In this i...
My Perfect Family: Martine
My Perfect Family: The Fergusons Part 1
The Fergusons are an average family of five; they have fun, they fight, but mostly they get along. ...
My Perfect Family: The Fergusons Part 1
My Perfect Family: Southland Lockdown
Awards Night is the highlight of the social calendar for a vulnerable workforce at Southland Disabil...
My Perfect Family: Southland Lockdown
My Perfect Family: Jaxon Woolley
15 year old Jaxon Woolley is already blitzing through para-sprinting records. An athlete to watch, J...
My Perfect Family: Jaxon Woolley
My Perfect Family: Harper Ahern
Since being diagnosed with Muscular Dystrophy at age four, 10-year-old surfer Harper and his family ...
My Perfect Family: Harper Ahern
My Perfect Family: Kat and Ella
Kat Yearbury is a mother to two-year-old Frankie and six-year-old Ella, who has Cerebral Palsy and E...
My Perfect Family: Kat and Ella
My Perfect Family: Jo & Leon
Young doctor Jo Scott’s career was on the rise when a brain haemorrhage changed her life. Seven year...
My Perfect Family: Jo & Leon
My Perfect Family: The Fergusons Part 2
Last week we met the Fergusons, a family of five who communicate using NZSL. Here, we join the Fergu...
My Perfect Family: The Fergusons Part 2
My Perfect Family: Perrones
Young anime artist Bee Perrone lives with the rare condition, Ivemark Syndrome. Understanding this i...
My Perfect Family: Perrones
My Perfect Family: Sam and Jason
Sam lost her sight as a baby due to meningitis, and her husband Jason has limited vision due to a ge...
My Perfect Family: Sam and Jason
My Perfect Family: OCD
For two teenage sisters living with OCD, the world can often be an uncertain and scary place. In the...
My Perfect Family: OCD
28 year-old Hunter MacGregor and his ma Roimata live together in the small town of Kaiaua, an hour south of Auckland.
“Ever since I got my degree of creative technologies we’ve lived down here for three years, it is much farther away from society than we bargained.”
They get along supremely well, they're yin and yang. In their wee home and garden they keep chickens and run an airbnb; Hunter’s job is to make the beds.
“She’s the cleaner I’m the maker.”
At age two Hunter was diagnosed with Autism, leaving Roimata as a single parent to work out what this meant for the two of them.
“That was shattering because I didn’t really know what I was going to be dealing with at that stage.”
Now Roimata has a better understanding of what Autism is.
“Autistic spectrum disorder is a spectrum like a rainbow, like the so-called ‘normal’ spectrum.”
“Autistic spectrum disorder is a spectrum like a rainbow, like the so-called ‘normal’ spectrum.”
The best advice Roimata was given was to avoid letting her son get stuck in routines.
“Fortunately I was working in a job which allowed me to travel, we went to India three times.”
For Hunter she says the most obvious thing is; “he is quite odd and doesn’t have the most fabulous social skills.” Hunter does not have many friends but this doesn't affect him as he gets along with his ma so well.
But he is he starting to worry about the future as they both get older.
“First of all who is going to cook his meals?” She asks.
Roimata had to tell Hunter he was autistic, but she says his eyesight is what makes him feel most different.
“He’s partially blind because of his damaged optic nerve,” at age 13 he had acute hydrocephalus.
Hunter has made progress gaining a degree in creative technologies, although he hopes to get a job in what he calls “the battlefield.”
“I do want to get myself out there, but what if I bungle and get booted from the battlefield, that would be a serious disgrace.”
An obstacle for Hunter is his anxiety as his ma says he can worry about the most ridiculous things.
“Oh my god the yen is falling is this going to be the end of nintendo? He’ll worry about that for a day and he worries about storms.”
Roimata believes the isolation of Kaiaua has not been beneficial to Hunter.
“We’ve become a little hermit-y so I’m a bad influence on him. I think he needs to be dragged out of his shell a little more and that’s not going to happen down here.”
She hopes one day he will get a job doing something he loves.
“Even though that breaks my heart, I have to be able to let him go.”
Like all mothers Roimata hopes Hunter will find a partner.
“I would like him to fall in love and be living in an environment where he can be happy and cook with somebody else and ultimately feel secure.” But until then, the two peas in a pod will continue through life together.
Being Me: William
Diagnosed with autism spectrum disorder and anxiety as a child, 25-year-old William Luskie is now an...
Being Me: William
My Perfect Family:Fragile X
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My Perfect Family:Fragile X
Crips In Cars: Jess & Jason
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Crips In Cars: Jess & Jason
Crips In Cars: Paula & Hunter
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Crips In Cars: Paula & Hunter
My Perfect Family: Hunter
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My Perfect Family: Hunter
My Perfect Family: Welcome Home Stevie
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My Perfect Family: Welcome Home Stevie
Unlocking Autism
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My Perfect Family: Courtenay
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My Perfect Family: Courtenay
The Mutes
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The Mutes
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Being Me Alix
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Seclusion
Being Me: Jason
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Being Me: Jason
My Perfect Family: Meet the Asners
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My Perfect Family: Meet the Asners
Damiana Rides Again
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Damiana Rides Again
Philip's Puppets
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Philip's Puppets
My Perfect Family: Twins
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My Perfect Family: Twins
Jimmy Wants a Job
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Jimmy Wants a Job
Josh Flannagan: Horse Whisperer
Humans and the way they behave have always confused Josh Flannagan but his special affinity with hor...
Josh Flannagan: Horse Whisperer
My Perfect Family: Scruff's Bunch
Kim Preston (Scruff) reckon's she'll be caring for her three adult sons with Autism until she 'carks...
My Perfect Family: Scruff's Bunch
Sam's Big Adventure
Sam Muir-James can swim to Rangitoto Island, perform magic tricks and make children laugh. He doesn'...
Sam's Big Adventure
Being Matt Frost
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Being Matt Frost
Hunter's Universe: Hunter's World
Hunter is a young guy living with Autism. He has an unusual way of looking at the world. He writes s...
Hunter's Universe: Hunter's World
Four Go Flatting
Four young people reckon it's time they moved out of home and went flatting. But with intellectual d...
Four Go Flatting
Brothers and Sisters
The unique perspective of those closest to us, our brothers and sisters.
Brothers and Sisters
My Perfect Family: Kim Preston
Raising three boys is always a big task, especially when two of them have severe autism. But Kim Pre...
My Perfect Family: Kim Preston
Tiny Houses Jason Gillard
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Tiny Houses Jason Gillard
My Perfect Family: The Priestleys
Four of the six Priestley family members live with Autism. Because they’re able to function at a hig...
My Perfect Family: The Priestleys
My Perfect Family: The Cookie Project
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My Perfect Family: The Cookie Project
Born Different
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Born Different
My Perfect Family: Melody
Within just one year Melody entirely lost her vision, gave birth to her first child, and left her ho...
My Perfect Family: Melody
Being Me: Denise
Living with autism and anxiety disorder has made social connections difficult for Denise. But in a n...
Being Me: Denise
Being Me: Julia
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Being Me: Julia
My Perfect Family: Georgia Heard
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My Perfect Family: Georgia Heard
My Perfect Family: Grace Payne
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My Perfect Family: Grace Payne
My Perfect Family: Mitch Brown
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My Perfect Family: Mitch Brown
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Tiny Houses Jason Gillard
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My Perfect Family: Grace Payne
Being Me: Te Huia Apaapa
26-year-old Te Huia Apaapa is a gifted runner and triathlete known as ‘The Rocketman’. Te Huia has a...
Being Me: Te Huia Apaapa
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